I always gave 2 choices to MsR2C that I was OK with.
W:"H, I have an important appointment tomorrow. Can you be here by 5:30? If I do not hear from you by noon tomorrow, I will make other arrangements for D."
If he plays games: 2:00 H:"W, yes I can be there at 5"
2:05:W:"H, When you continuously break your commitments to me, I can not trust your words. I gave you ample time to respond and you chose not to reply. Our original agreement was 6:30.......Bla Bla Bla
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712