Are there any links or threads that would help me get into the mind of my wife more? I hear she'll talk in absolute negatives, but I'm not sure when/if that starts to lift (where she gets out of the "fog")? Whose threads should I read to see where a wife was certain about the divorce, but then things turned around? I'd like to keep a little bit of hope because, no matter what, I am committed to our marriage and want to feel like I tried my best.
There are no threads about that because that is the LAST thing you want to do. You will know she is out of the fog WHEN her behavior changes for the better OVER a long period of time.
Amen! It's like asking what's the safest way to walk into a category 5 hurricane, LOL!
Harvey, regarding "Whose threads should I read to see where a wife was certain about the divorce, but then things turned around?" check out Steve's for starters! Joejoe1's is also a good one, and Benito, and Txhubby.
