kech, so do you want him to want you? Or do you just want him back even if he'd rather be with someone else?

I am sorry, but I personally couldn't settle for being a consolation prize. And a person with a strong sense of self-worth wouldn't want that either.

He may choose to come back. He may choose to file for D (I think it is very telling that he hasn't) and be with OW. The point is that it is his choice. You have no power over that choice.

But you DO have power. Over you. And that is what we've been telling you. IC. Talking to a lawyer. Finding happiness outside of your MR, and internally in yourself. That is your power.

His choice is you or not you. Your choice is to be happy no matter what, or to be miserable one way or the other.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018