Are there any links or threads that would help me get into the mind of my wife more? I hear she'll talk in absolute negatives, but I'm not sure when/if that starts to lift (where she gets out of the "fog")? Whose threads should I read to see where a wife was certain about the divorce, but then things turned around? I'd like to keep a little bit of hope because, no matter what, I am committed to our marriage and want to feel like I tried my best.