Good to hear from you! We joined at similar times and I remember going through a lot of tough moments alongside you. It sounds like you are in a relatively good place right now. That makes me happy. I hope that the D process is smooth and that you are able to spend as much time with your D as possible.
Would you characterize your feelings towards W as indifference or is there hostility as well? I ask because I have been struggling over the last month to move past resentment towards my W. When I gave up on her and R it became hard not to be resentful. It's not that I walk around all day feeling bitter, but when thoughts of her or the MR pop up it is hard for me not to resent her for her immaturity/lack of faith/inability to work through our issues. Did you pass through this stage upon giving up or were you able to move more cleanly into acceptance?
I do hope that you continue to stop by, both to support all of us, but also to update us on your sitch.
All the best.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
