Rose - you point I can't "make" him do anything. I tend to want to control the situation, and that's one of the big changes I'm working on for myself. Let go of what I can't control, and work on my reactions instead. He did ultimately share that he's afraid he won't be able to hold it together if we talk to them now because of all the emotions of moving out, etc. We have some time since my daughter will be home this weekend and he is still in the house, and both kids probably won't be home again until Thanksgiving.
I started reading your story from 2016, and sounds similar to mine with the depression and unsatisfying sex situation. Could you send me the appropriate links on how you proceeded and how it all turned out? Thanks.
