I don’t think I’m going to confront him again about it because he will most likely say no again and if he said yes you all are right I would just get more upset. I haven’t told him recently cheating is a deal breaker but he knows I’m general I have always spoke to him about I don’t know how people cheat and that’s a ground for divorce in my book. Maybe he had a one night stand and tried to get out of the marriage because he couldn’t handle the guilt / or me finding out and initiating leaving him?? Who knows. It’s all still a huge mystery and I feel like I have NO answers or closure.