You tease heavyheart!!!
You HD women are such an inspiration to us guys! Hopefully I will have a heavyheart/honeypot/nomojoblue/annette/johanna of my very own one day. OK I have to be realistic. I can't influence her to become anything like as HD as you all are but I see glimmers of change that keep my hope alive.
Take Friday night for example. It did not go well at first. S19 had a friend in the house and although they were playing computer games no where near our bedroom and there was no way either of them was going to barge in, it spooked her. I had no idea she was feeling uncomfortable - it doesn't bother me - and was disappointed when she said that she was too uncomfortable for sex tonight. Never mind thinks I, I'll try the Michele approach and suggest we postpone until Saturday night. After all if I'm on a promise that's OK (right heavyheart?). No way! She's only psyched up for Fridays so Saturday is a no-no. But it's Friday now so what's the problem? The boys downstairs are just an excuse. Sadly there was no way she was going to change her mind and I could see all my dreams going down the pan. Things got a bit heated and we both lost our tempers with me stupidly accusing her of not loving me and saying I was going to leave her if we couldn't work this out. So then she said "Lets do it then. Just get on with it". So my plans for a relaxing slow romantic night of love looked like turning into a slanging match followed by a loveless lewd act. Incredulous I told her that it wasn't just about sex and that in any case I couldn't even raise a smile after the last half hours battle so we just lay there like two reindeers exhausted after a good hard rutting session. After a bit we got talking and gradually calmed down. I felt a vague flicker of desire stirring and made a few amorous moves and she responded favourably. I went down to do what I do best and found her very turned on. Pity we had to have the pre-match showdown.
The following night we had a really lovely chat and cuddle in bed but of course there was no threat of sex so she was relaxed. Same again last night with a nice relaxing talk. Given time hopefully we will be relaxed on Friday nights too.
SD