You do something different, he reacts differently. Part of the process?
Originally Posted by kech
When hes sad, you know hes sad. And when hes indifferent, its obvious. And Im feeling like he is just indifferent towards me and it really hurts.
Mind-reading. No way to know for sure (but of course if anyone knows it would be you, as his W, so I'm not saying you're necessarily wrong).
Originally Posted by kech
I said "I was surprised not to hear back from you last night"
Pursuit = backsliding = learn from it and try again. You can do it!
Originally Posted by kech
I just nodded my head yes. I know im being a little cold
Cold? Sounds like detached to me. Cold would be turning around and walking away without answering or nodding. You're doing OK.
Originally Posted by kech
He is just living such a different life and normally by now he would be kind of a mess without me and he doesnt seem to be a mess.
Mind-reading and expectations. He doesn't seem to be a mess, but he's living in 2 different places and has no idea what he wants, what his values are, etc. It's all up in the air.
H: 35 W: 33 M: 11 T: 13
4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1") 6/23/18: I moved out 8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")
