I think it just really hurts my feelings he never responded to my text about times for tonight. I called him this morning to make sure the time worked and he said that it worked fine and he would probably be here even earlier than I needed him. And I was like "ok I just didnt hear back from you".
Its like he is treating me just he would anyone else on the street. Hes known for not responding to texts or calls, but never for me. This is absolutely a first that he didnt say anything back to me last night. It doesnt make any sense, especially when I was only texting about childcare. So it makes me just want to reach out right now and ask him if he is doing okay or just anything. I want that connection I guess. And its killing me. I truly feel like he has begun to forget about me completely besides being the mother of his child.
He is playing you. The WAS can use DB tactics too. It happens all the time. In fact, how do you get on this site? Do you have a home computer or laptop he can access when he his with the baby and you are out? He may have found this site. This is why we recommend hiding the DB/DR books and not letting the WAS find this website in your browser history. Likely he as snooped.
Has he accused of seeing anyone else lately? If he hasn't he probably read your posts here. This is all very fishy.
Kech & Steve my WAS definitely uses DB tactics. She knows nothing of DB, but just mirrors my action. Often in a perverse light. I often GAL with my kids but she usually doesn't join us even though there is always an open invitation. She is now trying GAL with kids, but makes certain that I know I am not invited. So like I said she often tries to mirror even though that mirror is a bit warped.
Another note if you are worried about security just post from your phone and change your password to lock your phone. I do not post from anything but my phone which is othen why I have so many typos in my posts. You may need to start a new account.
Last edited by Twofeet; 09/27/1801:32 PM.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19