Is it? Lots of LBSs have said this, but then when there was an affair they still held on to the WAS for dear life. So is cheating really a dealbreaker for you? One of the worst things you can do is say it is, then go back on that. Setting boundaries without consequences will train your H that he can do pretty much anything he wants.
So say you confront, he confesses. What do you do next?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018