In my experience any convo about R is only turned on us so I said why initiate at all and when WW wants to start ranting about how bad the last 17 years were I walk away or just don't read the messages.

I would expect any response will only hurt more than no communication.

Again I wish we could all meet for coffee when we are feeling this way to just have our own long peer counseling sessions.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019