W never admitted to the EA and said I was overthinking everything and was being ridiculous. After BD I went into pursuit mode for a while. Made all the mistakes everyone makes. For the last few months, I've been giving her space. There were other factors like work and finances that led to BD but some if not most of the pressure has been relieved. The finances have still been an issue.
W and coaches body language also did a 180. They are aware of my body language abilities and try to hide it now. W no longer communicates with the coach as much. She does ask son what the coach says about his play when I'm not in the room. She went on a social media fog for a bit but seems to be coming out of it. I think she was looking for that excitement she got from the coach with other men on social media. I told her that was also inappropriate.
Boundaries were set on some things and now we are in limbo.
Me 45 W 40 Step Son16 D 3 1/2 M 7 yrs Sept 1st yrs together 10 Living together 06/18/18 ILYBNILWY 8/21/18 W looking for housing.