Good for you for saying you will talk about it when you are ready. I never know what to say to my H when he brings it up. Last time I finally just said I agreed and for him to do what he needs to do. He’s the one who decided to get caught up with another woman and break up our family. If he wants a divorce, he can do all the work towards it and go from there.
You sound very strong. Focusing on you and your son is what’s important. I wish I was being as strong!! I’m focusing on me and daughter but every minute my head is wondering where he is and what he’s doing and if he’s falling more and more in love with someone else. It’s very difficult.
Do you guys have a schedule set In stone for the coparenting? I was allowing H to come daily to see daughter but kept being advised on here to set up a schedule, so this has been our first week of that. It’s tough for sure. I’m really really feeling the separation. I only asked him to leave the house 4 weeks ago tomorrow, so living Apart is still taking some getting used to.
You can do this! You sound like you’re doing really great mentally, keep going! Keep being the wife any man would be crzy to leave!!
