Hi Ready...We have been living like a married couple in most respects (at least as really good friends), except no sex since discovery of his affair in January. Do most things together, socialize with friends, have meals together,sleep in the same bed etc! It's sooooo strange. But he doesn't give me anything emotionally. I I think he believes I can't give it to him. I believe he just isn't receptive to it for a lot of complicated reasons. I'm hoping the separation will bring it all in perspective and perhaps a future "date night" will bring us a spark that can start something new. Time will tell.....