Well...today has been weird to say the least.

I got up early, showered, made coffee, then went to the courthouse.

I went in, but W wasn't there yet. We got called first, so as I'm standing in front of the judge, W walked in with S...and that's when we learned that there was an issue with the paperwork from the mediator. Apparently they couldn't figure out how something should be worded and they didn't send over the D decree.

So we left. W asked me if I wanted to get coffee with her and S so we could talk about things. I agreed (mostly to spend some time with S...and coffee).

We talked, argued, etc., the usual. She once again told me she does love me. But she also was demanding 50/50 custody and that she would do MC. I told her I needed some time to think about it.

After we left, W called me. I knew she was on the way to S's dr appt. She started talking, yelling, bringing up totally irrelevant stuff that she decided to be mad about.

I had GAL plans, so when I got back to my place, I told her I had to go. She refused, and kept talking, yelling, making threats, etc.

When she started threatening to call CPS on my friends randomly, I told her I had to go. She kept talking. I hung up and turned my phone off for about 4 hours and proceeded to GAL.

When I turned my phone back on, I had 3 missed calls from W, and a TON of fb messages from random friends saying she needed to get in touch with me.

She decided to submit a motion to dismiss the D.

I was like "wtf...?"

I called her. She said "you win. I would rather stay married and miserable than lose my S. I don't want you back, but I will not give up S."

So now...no idea what's happening. S is staying at my place tonight because she will work from 10p-3am. Tomorrow, they are both coming over for dinner so she and I can figure out what's going on.

I'm really, realllllly confused right now.

I plan to lay down some ground rules if she wants to R, but I'm also going to look into seeing what the law says about dismissing a D case. I know in our state, only one party has to request a D for it to be granted, but I'm not sure how dismissing it works.

I can't even begin to figure out what's going on.

So...please...fire away with the advice...because I'm confused af. lol