....I saw what I had wanted to see....When he is truly starting to come back, you will know without question, because he will be changing: he will be remorseful, honest, vulnerable, and he will be thinking of you and your needs, not just his own.... He had to go down his own path and fall flat on his face before realizing what he had lost.
This most likely will be long way off. You will be a strong independent woman. You will have a list of what it will take for him to win you back.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
