Quote: She told me a few weeks ago that she doesn't have a problem with the sex but that she's not used to the "idea" of it.
My H said something similar. He said once he gets going he's okay, but the anticipation is more like dread. I've been trying to respect this (thinking of what Michele says in SSM about how some people aren't aroused until stimulation has taken place), but it's difficult when he fights me tooth and nail to even get to the point where ANY stimulation is going on.
- Heavyheart (still working out the differentiated details)
