Originally Posted by sia
LBWs can play this game too. At the time it crushed my world now it feels how sad and guilty WH must have been to even say such things
- I have been telling you for years I was unhappy but you were oblivious (when second baby was 15 weeks old)
- even our happy years were checkered with incidents
- children are an unfortunate complication of this MR
- you ruined my life for 15 years you are going to continue ruining it even after D
- you have a cozy life I am the one having to leave home( while he was walking out on D3 and D8 months)
- I have been forgiving you never forgotten anything you have said in 15 years
- you are surprisingly resilient you will be fine, I am going to be the villain here

Gosh, I am married to a whack job


Oh yeah? Check this out:

"You, me, OW, and OW's H, all need to sit down and talk about this!" (yes, he actually said that)


“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela