LBWs can play this game too. At the time it crushed my world now it feels how sad and guilty WH must have been to even say such things
- I have been telling you for years I was unhappy but you were oblivious (when second baby was 15 weeks old)
- even our happy years were checkered with incidents
- children are an unfortunate complication of this MR
- you ruined my life for 15 years you are going to continue ruining it even after D
- you have a cozy life I am the one having to leave home( while he was walking out on D3 and D8 months)
- I have been forgiving you never forgotten anything you have said in 15 years
- you are surprisingly resilient you will be fine, I am going to be the villain here

Gosh, I am married to a whack job