A week ago, WW mentioned to D14 that she has found her own place. D14 figured it out right away that she just spends the nights with POS, because she still comes home early mornings to get ready for work, and another thing, WW never asked D14 if she wants to see her “place”. She texts me the same thing, and this is where I said something wrong, she took both keys for a vehicle we both have our names on, and i asked for the spare key. I know i should’ve just let that go, but i slid down. also, i asked for her to not take the dogs’ ashes with her in her new home, as our home is his permanent home. too shallow on my part, and i realized that after i sent a text message.
i promised my self, from this day onward, i would reply to her messages, save it my phones’ notepad and save it instead of sending it. vindictiveness still gets the best of me, and i should learn to control it. validate, validate, validate. reply only when necessary.
As what AS said, no need to reply, dont add fuel to the fire, validate!
