No apologies needed. I'm going to leave this thread up for a while because the one that I am thinking of may have been purged many years ago and if by chance, I do locate it, I'll post the link here. BTW, the quotes are not only said by the WWs, but also the MLCers as well.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.