Now that I am pulling away and "letting go", its like no one is fighting for us and we will not make it if no one is fighting for us.
You are the one working to repair the M. Think of it as a vacation.
During this vacation you are going to:
- improve how you communicate - improve how you interact - improve how you respond - improve the way you let other treat you - improve how H sees you
This is all about personal growth. I could keep going on with more items to add to the list. Only you can make these changes. Only you know what changes need to be made. What needs to be added to the list?
Listen to these words very carefully:
"How hard is it to change your own habits? Now tell me this : How hard is it to change SOMEONE ELSE’S habits?"
You want to save the M. You are putting in the work. H may come around. Again, No guaranties. Just faith.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712