I have had the moments in which I feel that W has lost her love for me. Truth be told, I still have moments in which I believe she loves me and "in love with me". She has not told me outright one way or the other nor do I expect her to do so right now. I know that time will come eventually, however my sitch ends. I don't think your WH would be expected to do that either.
kech/burned, ask yourself...how toxic do you feel your R was before bomb drop? Was everything blissful and happy then just all of a sudden BOOM?
Or were you sensing that things were off?
As hard as it will be, look at yourself and your contribution to the sitch. Learn from it.
And very important...DO NOT MAKE ANY DECISION OR SAY ANYTHING WHEN YOU ARE EMOTIONAL!!! Such things NEVER end up good.
