I can only speak for myself but I started "going dark" last week and went even darker starting a couple days ago.
And just before I read your post I got this yucky cold tingly feeling, like W has lost all love. But maybe it's my own fear, not the reality. That's why we can't mind-read. It only makes US feel worse.
Maybe we have to act as if they really have lost all love?
This stinks.
Last edited by burned; 09/26/1807:54 PM. Reason: clarified
H: 35 W: 33 M: 11 T: 13
4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1") 6/23/18: I moved out 8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")