I feel like sometimes both of us miss that, its crazy we cant just be open about it and do it.
Why do you feel he misses you? What has he done that shows you that?
Also, why would you want to be open and do that with someone that is cheating on you? If your best friend told you her husband was cheating on her but she missed him and just wanted to spend time with him, what would you say to her?
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UGHH. Having a tough time today but I am staying busy and pushing through
Have you had a good day recently? I've seen nothing where you've said "I am doing great today!" Each day that goes by, are you trying to find the positives? "I stood up for myself against a cheater." "I am standing firm on my insistence that he not have OW in his life AND me be his wife." "I've spent quality time with my D today! That is wonderful no matter who else is or isn't around!"
kech, you are dwelling on the negative (he isn't there) instead of focusing on all of the positives in your life.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018