I think he is biding his time. You've been telling him since January, and here it gets delayed again? Who decided on the delay?
Just to clarify, he's moving out Oct 1st to an Extended Stay hotel. Committed to a 4 week stay.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
If you drop bomb on him that you're done and it starts now, it would certainly change the dynamic. Why can't he decide?
I'm simply not ready to start mediation or divorce proceedings. If we can build a new marriage out of these ashes I still believe 27 years is worth saving. I've been happily GAL for a few months now, and am liking what is happening to me, especially rediscovering my faith. I'm not wanting to date, so this will be fine for me I'm hoping a separation will allow us both, maybe especially H?, to figure out if we are willing to do the very hard work of repairing/redesigning our marriage. I believe H dragged his feet for so long because is he really doesn't want to give up all the good we have, but doesn't believe it's possible to build a strong emotional connection nor face his demons. It's hard to say, because he really doesn't share that much.
