SD, From one Londoner to another, I'm very happy for your progress and I loved the touch at the end about working in the garden all weekend, I can relate well to that! Please tell me, how did you get to the point of negotiating a "just do it" agreement? We're at the stage of talking about that but she's still very much in the belief that she won't do anything she doesn't feel like doing ang I'm still very confused whether she is driven by thoughts first and body second or vice versa. Normally she tells me she needs to be turned on mentally to react physically but today I tried some gentle intimate caressing and she didn't throw my hand off for a few minutes (a major breakthrough!), she just said she felt zero down there.
