H committed to an extended stay for 4 weeks. The purpose is for both of us to determine if we want to do the hard work to try to repair the marriage. I have been steadfast I wanted to see if we could build something new, since January. He could never decide. I'm hoping a separation will help us both make clearer decision on what we want. I'm not so steadfast in my desire to repair the marriage, as I have serious doubts H will be able to do the things necessary for me to trust him again.
I'm doing fairly well on GAL. Detachment has been bumpy, but hoping it will go better when he moves out. I'm wondering about NC? Considering we both agreed this was the best thing to do, do I always wait for him to contact me, unless I have "business" things to talk about, such as our college-aged kids or finances? He's still going to take care of the lawn, etc., and I plan to be out when he comes to do that.
