The urge to confront for me was constant. However, in the instances where I caved in it always ended poorly. And I regretted it afterward. And it did more harm than good.
So remember the after effect. Always ask "If I do this will it do more harm than good?" "Will I regret it later?"
Hang in there Stryk, it gets easier as you get better at it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018