H emailed me a draft of his divorce agreement paperwork last week and I took it to my lawyer yesterday to review. A lot of it is not fair at all and I told him that. He was angry that I saw a lawyer saying that it wasn't meant to be looked at by a lawyer. He'd rather us keep it out of the courts. My lawyer says from H's description he sounds confused still about what he wants, I just dont know.

I am just tired. We have so much to discuss for this and he runs. He runs and hides saying we'll talk about it later, and when I push to talk about it now, he just hides. I don't know what he wants anymore. He's always putting on the waterworks. I came from another state and if we divorce I want to move back home with our son when I will have plenty of support as we have none up here but H wont sign on that he says.

If this is still part of a MLC, it is HORRIBLE and I would not wish this on anyone. We have pets that we need to discuss what will happen with them since I would like to get rid of the house if we divorce and H doesn't address it, he didn't even offer any ideas when I brought it up.

It's just nonstop teary eyes and sadness from him. I'm working my butt off here to raise our son, keep the house clean, cook, take care of pets, while he comes and goes as he pleases and doesn't have any responsibilities. I dont know what to do anymore.

Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019