My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 4

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Well I called her back. It was mostly about her feeling bad, never saw this marriage failure coming, sorry she lied to me again, and reiterating a lot of things we talked about last night. Asked me what to do, what the right thing was.

But I don't think it is a convo worth having again, b/c at the end of the day she didn't feel that bad going back to OM's apt right?

Then she texts me this afternoon "Thank you".

And I think I'm about to send a text just telling her "you have a funny way of showing it. I'm fed up with you. You should get your stuff out of here. This isn't working".

But maybe I should do that in person and not puss out.

Anyways I had a really productive counseling session today, and I am trying to figure what I want to do here. I'm thinking about making an ultimatum on separation. I mean why does it matter if we physically separate, she's not going to be here anyways.