That’s how my mind works anyways. I plan to keep doing it, it’s just such an odd feeling for me. Almost like I’m just giving in to our relationship ending. And I feel like it’s just going to end because neither of us is really doing anything to stop it and we will just get further apart.
Does this make sense? Is this a normal feeling in DBing
My MC describes the things you are doing (DBing) as "surrendering". By surrendering, you are accepting that the fate of your current R is up in the air. You accept that you cannot control your sitch, no matter how hard you try to make it so. You cannot convince him. You cannot change him. You have to surrender yourself to those facts. Where it ends up, only a higher power knows. By surrendering, you're not pursuing, and you're not withdrawing and going distant/cold. You just let go. You accept that you cannot control his actions.
By surrendering, you begin to accept the circumstances you can control. You control yourself. You yourself control your actions. You yourself control your happiness. You yourself control your confidence.
Embrace yourself. Love yourself. Love your child. Be a kickass kech. Be a kickass mother. Be a kickass friend. Be kickass.
