don't underestimate your own self-worth. Your H does not realize your value. The best chance of him realizing it is if you totally remove yourself from him. Also sends a clear message that you don't approve of what is happening. More importantly, you don't want to give some of yourself to someone who is treating you and your M this way, do you?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
