If it helps anyone out there, my spouse literally told me that it was when I really pulled away from her, and she had to face the prospect of life without me, that she really turned around. The same story over and over again with Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712