Husband cheated, left, trying SO HARD to DB 2

[Ready2Change]

R2C is dead right on this. He is trying to control you with the lawn mowing.

You could even do this:

When he shows up, have the baby ready to go. Tell him you have to run out, you are taking her with you. You will have her back when he is finished mowing the lawn.

If it takes a 1/2 hour to mow the lawn, come back in a 1/2 hour, drop her off, and then "something came up, I have to go. I'll be back by bedtime."

Oh, and look smoking hot in all cases.

^^^^^^ This is how you DB^^^^^^^

1) Assess a situation
2) Assess your options
3) Weigh the consequences of each option
4) Make a decision
5) Execute that decision
6) Live with the consequences of that decision (good OR bad)
7) Go back to step 1