I'll wager she walks by often. I think the only thing that saves us from more drive-bys is the distance. I see it like a magnet, the parts that pull them to us and the parts that push them away. I think the strength of the attraction/repulsion change over time during the crisis.
I'm glad for you that you have been spared a lot of the monster spew. I think it is because it went down so quickly and you don't do things to engage the monster. I'm still learning, still working. For the last 9 months or so it is only the pokes that I have sometimes fallen for. I have not been the one initiating. When I've had to deal with business (very rarely) I've gone the most direct and least-emotion laden and it has helped. It just gets hard because when you ignore the pokes they tend to get meaner (at least in my case).
