Would you suggest coming strait out and asking about an affair or one night stand ?? He knows cheating is a deal breaker for me so maybe he is terrified there is no going back if he admits it. I don’t know what else would explain his behavior other than PTSD-depression- MLC.

Back in February he was first on scene to two young children murdered. He immediately texted me that he loved me and our daughter so much. He went on medication shortly after and I feel like this all happened a couple months after that trauma. None of it makes any sense and I have no closure frown I want him to feel like he can talk to me.