Love the Stockeale Paradox method. Totally get that having the mindset of knowing we can achieve the outcomes we desire but having the discipline to face the daily challenges and constraints.
So I may have goofed big time. WAW and I exchanged a few emails regarding some items she left at the marital home. During the exchange she made mention of how I’m incapable of change again...and I bit. I said I prey for her everyday and that I believed she was in a fog. A similar fog that I was in prior to BD. A fog where you only think about yourself and not account for how it impacts anyone else.
So I essentially made my claim that WAW is in a MLC. No reply or communication since.
I believe this may have set me back in a way....but it’s also a 180 since I stood firm in my beliefs. (I would do anything to keep the peace prior due to NGS). I know every interaction is an opportunity to display my changes, and believe this was one where I refused to be disrespected.
Anyone have any thoughts?
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
