When you are busy DBing and GAL a thought will creep into your head. "I don't deserve this. I am better than how he is treating me." It will come more and more. That will help you detach. I still love my wife but I see her evil actions for what they are. I think this will help not let her back so easy this time.
M 55. W 43 T 12. M 8 1st BD 9\16 W moved out 11\16 Recon moved back 2/17 2nd BD 8/12/18