Husband cheated, left, trying SO HARD to DB 2

[Dtrmned]

Kech,
Good Morning!
Hopefully the sun is shining and your daughter is amazing so you can see the beauty of the day in spite of what is going on.

I saw a mention of this yesterday, but now that your WH is on a schedule and you don't have to communicate much more on his comings and goings. A minor slip up in you wearing your shorts that drive him crazy may be a good thing. Having him see what he is missing (and you now these affect him) might not be a bad thing.

You are now too busy and caught up in your life to remember everything and cater to all his needs. Not everytime, but a "minor" slip up like that will cause him to notice. If he reacts, it means he is still wanting you to be plan B.

Always, as a newbie going through my own version of this, this is always just in my humble opinion.

I have found over the last week or so that not posting on here every 5 minutes helps me keep my head straighter and my mind off of it. If I am typing about what just happened for a 15--20 minute interaction and I am responding for 2 hours on here, that is a long time and hard to keep your mind off of it.

Good luck today! Have fun with your D, put your H out of your mind, and do somethings for yourself.

I know, easier said than done, but one minute, one hour, one day at a time...