DB / Detach- Will we ever piece it together

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Quick update limited time but crazy change... pretty unsure of W here but we'll see.

Yesterday I drop d4 off to school wife there to see her. She starts talking to me. We end up talking for 90 min. Some major sexual content about her desires. Says she was who I wanted her to be in M. And she thought I would think shes disgusting for her fantasies. I said you need to be yourself and I your hot, I think its hot. Not going to get into too many details here but lets just say it was arousing.

During convo I mentioned other W being a good person. Mentioned voluntary support not having to pay anything. Different if we are dating and working to R or divorce and it being VS each other in divorce.

Also mentioned she is not sure if she wants more kids because she doesnt want to go through it all again. Wants to be happy travel have fun etc.

She thought sexual desires and kids may be dealbreaker for me.

Brief texts yesterday evening. Called her manipulative because its always just words and life is action. Finish convo with me saying Im done thinking about you, youll either make Sht happen or you wont.

830am text I wanna have sex now... I respond I was wondering if you were free while D4 is at school. So Im going to go over while D4 is at school...

Going to tell her to look good do your make up etc. Going to say some things to work towards connection emotional and not just physical first, just simply caring about each other, liking each other, forgiving each other for the pain we've caused and wanting an honest open relationship where we can connect based on communication and not just sex etc then treat it as just sex if it happens. Has to be good though, 15 months coming.

Whoa... guys remember women are all a little crazy sometimes you cant live with them cant live without them.

We'll see how this goes...