Originally Posted by JujuB
Its hard to come to terms with cold discardment.

My ex had addiction issues as well, but kept them a secret. Such a secret i still doubt myself.


I absolutely get all of this. In the pit of my stomach, I know what this feels like.

Originally Posted by JujuB

Even the marriage counselor told me the 15 bottles of hidden jack daniels i found and took a pocture of was merely a crutch he was using for pur marital difficulties.



I have no words...shocked beyond all belief that someone - anyone - could say this to you, let alone a counsellor. Utterly shocked.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017