Well Artista, it's probably not going to last now that we had the talk anyway because for me it was go places with her or nothing. Something other than hang at her house.

So I've already said before I am not hanging out with her at her place anymore, that's why I asked her to dinner this time...I am just not doing it. So my only option is to do things with her. But there's a problem right there. I most definitely won't be taking her out for a fancy dinner or spend money again. So it really leaves me no choice but to just stop seeing her. Perhaps next time she contacts me to hang out I'll just do something else. I've said before that I am kind of bored with her as it is now. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy her company insofar as we laugh and have a great time together...but if I'm taking a lady out to a fancy restaurant a second time...I'm getting something out of it wink
So I might just stop seeing her. As crude as it sounds, I work all week and don't necessarily want one of my weekend nights to be wasted on her anymore. Bored with her is the only way I can describe how I feel. So I think it's going to be a longer time before I see her again.


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14