Originally Posted by Stryk2
I'm a problem solver and this goes against my gut. .

No more solving her problems. You listen for understanding her life. Read the validation thead that is sticky at top of newcomers.

You surprised her. Her "What?" was exactly what you wanted.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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