Husband left for second time - 7

[Jim1234]

It's a lot easier to condemn someone else's spouse I've found, and to view them as unworthy, but hard when it's your own spouse in whom you've invested. It's not just about romantic love but there are practical matters as well - financial, child-wise, family-wise, and sunk costs.

Ya, Nicole, I get that. Especially since I suspect the people who looked at my thread are wondered why I'm still pining.
It's easy for me to sit behind a keyboard and vilify your H, but I should probably spend a little more time looking in the mirror.