When/if you fix what it is you told her. You would do it with no expectations. I would do it when she wasn't home and never tell her I fixed. Like I said You are doing this for you. You are keep your word. The key words in that last sentence. "You" are keeping "your" word. That, you can hold on too for a lifetime. You want be fixing it for ploy to get your W back.
You got this E. No matter your decision, please make the decision for you and not because of what your W is putting you thru.
Think about it this way. You are doing this for a person that is not your W. So, if you gave your word to another person, would you feel obligated to do it. So, take your W out of the equation. As a man and person do you ever fallback on your words, because if you don't, please dont start with this issue.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.