I meant to say "I was looking good and and obviously enjoying other things and people." .... But I didn't do that to win him. I really wanted to GAL, detach, and start living my own life. Him noticing was the secondary gain. It can take a long time too.

Speaking of GAL, I am on my way now to do some yoga. Have you tried that? Especially when you add in some heat, humidity, and a challenging core class? It feels amazing, physically and mentally. It's hard to get myself going, but I feel so strong and awesome after. I highly recommend it.

I have come to love my alone time in general. I think I like a lot of things about myself more now than I did pre-BD. There are many silver linings to be found. All in time. I promise.

I'll check back later :-)
Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela