Husband cheated, left, trying SO HARD to DB 2

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kech,

Do you know if I had a dollar for every time my WW has said I hate you in the last 5 months...I wouldn't have to work anymore! But you know what works best...zero response to that kind of texting and firm boundaries if in person. When you respond you feed right into their little game. You have to start recognizing when things are about to turn and be prepared. This doesn't solve anything by responding, just let him rant via text, just don't give him the satisfaction of fighting back with him. I used to crave any interaction even if it was a foul argument...no way not anymore, I would rather have NC.

I found my WW would always temp check me right before she would be with OM or right after and try to bait me into an argument. This would justify her actions by thinking how much of a jerk I am for fighting with her. But you know lately the way things have been? The last rant I got via text last week was" FU, I hate you, you are a selfish person and that is why this is all happening." An hour later after no response from me I got another text that said "I'm sorry, that's not how I feel, thank you for being patient with me"....I still did not respond.

And just this past Thursday my W went on a rampage in person after a few drinks at our house and I removed myself from the conversation and went to my room. She texted me FU, loser, then 5 minutes later was trying to seduce me back upstairs, I said no thanks I don't want to fight anymore....2 minutes later she was diving into MY bed.