So this shift started happening. I will never forget this one night. I was dressed up and ready to go. He showed up to fetch the kids. I said goodbye and grabbed my purse. He followed me outside to my car. Huh? He kept trying to make small talk and keep me standing in front of the house. Huh? I just shrugged, was polite, but on my way. .... I got in my car and drove off. What had just happened??!! He was different. He looked like he had tears in his eyes. He was concerned with what I was doing and where I was going .... Something had shifted. Then it was like a snowball affect. I just knew the table had turned. ... and well, I let him back too easy. I say that now...
I have read this many times. This is where hope and faith come from.
During this process, you will need to come up with a list of conditions to accept him back.
Things like:
1) transparency 2) IC for H
The key words "too easy" should be understood during this process.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712